Single parenting is not an easy choice to make. You will have
many days where you might not think you can make it. Even
though we're glad you chose life, we want to make sure you
are not putting yourself into a stressful and harmful situation.
Remember to learn about all of your options! Our peer
counselors are ready to assist you in discovering all the
support services that exist in our area. We exist to support
you throughout your pregnancy and beyond!
Here are some questions to consider about single parenting:
If I can't afford to live on my own, where can I live with my baby? We can help you
explore your housing options before you deliver. Most single parents need to work. Consider
your childcare options in each situation:
New Beginnings has material resources for you and your baby. We can help you with
maternity clothes, baby clothing, child birth and parenting classes, etc.
How do I get support from the father? The father's legal responsibilities include providing
financial support for your child. Most states have a child support enforcement agency that will
withhold money from his paycheck if he is unwilling to pay. If the father is unable to provide
child support, you need to plan how you will care for your baby without him. A birthfather's
support record may influence court decisions about custody and visitation rights. You and the
father should also discuss your individual rights and responsibilities. A child's needs are best
met when you and the father work together.
Can I still choose adoption later if parenting doesn't work out? If single parenting
becomes too difficult and you decide to consider adoption, making an adoption plan is still an
option. It takes courage to realize that by yourself you cannot provide all that your child
needs. But separating from a child with whom you have bonded is difficult. We will be happy
to connect you with several adoption areas in your area that can help you.
many days where you might not think you can make it. Even
though we're glad you chose life, we want to make sure you
are not putting yourself into a stressful and harmful situation.
Remember to learn about all of your options! Our peer
counselors are ready to assist you in discovering all the
support services that exist in our area. We exist to support
you throughout your pregnancy and beyond!
Here are some questions to consider about single parenting:
If I can't afford to live on my own, where can I live with my baby? We can help you
explore your housing options before you deliver. Most single parents need to work. Consider
your childcare options in each situation:
- Living with a friend or relative
- Staying in a group home for single mothers
- Living with your parents or the birthfather's parents
- Finding an apartment in public, subsidized housing
- Can anyone help me with baby items, maternity clothes, etc?
New Beginnings has material resources for you and your baby. We can help you with
maternity clothes, baby clothing, child birth and parenting classes, etc.
How do I get support from the father? The father's legal responsibilities include providing
financial support for your child. Most states have a child support enforcement agency that will
withhold money from his paycheck if he is unwilling to pay. If the father is unable to provide
child support, you need to plan how you will care for your baby without him. A birthfather's
support record may influence court decisions about custody and visitation rights. You and the
father should also discuss your individual rights and responsibilities. A child's needs are best
met when you and the father work together.
Can I still choose adoption later if parenting doesn't work out? If single parenting
becomes too difficult and you decide to consider adoption, making an adoption plan is still an
option. It takes courage to realize that by yourself you cannot provide all that your child
needs. But separating from a child with whom you have bonded is difficult. We will be happy
to connect you with several adoption areas in your area that can help you.
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